tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-69868493125231310892024-03-05T01:46:08.951-06:00Glory ItchesAlihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.comBlogger224125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6986849312523131089.post-20717078552334166582015-09-08T13:50:00.000-05:002015-09-08T13:56:00.683-05:00Parents, the buck stops with you. Talk to your kids about porn.A mother reached out on facebook today after finding that her 9 year old son was viewing pornography on his dad's phone. I know no other particulars than that. Her search for advice on what to do came through a Christian forum for mothers of boys. <br />
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With five boys and another on the way, I am passionate about this issue. How do we protect our kids from the influence and addictiveness of pornography when it's EVERYWHERE?? And to be clear, this is not just an issue that affects boys. Parents of girls need to be vigilant too. <br />
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So, what advice was given to this mom? As I read the first several comments I was shocked. There were the helpful links to protective software, and several people saying they had gone through this with their own kids. But a lot of what I saw were what I considered to be soft, politically correct answers. "It's natural", "boys are just curious about sex", "make sure he feels no shame over this discovery". And even one who suggested that mothers shouldn't be the ones talking with their boys about sex. <br />
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I'm sorry, WHAT? <br />
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Yes, curiosity is normal. Viewing porn is NOT. Pornography - especially for children - is never "natural". Saying that someone should feel no shame in viewing pornography is basically giving the go ahead to enjoy sin. And intimating that only one parent should openly speak with children can create confusion and lead to more secrecy. <br />
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I couldn't keep my mouth shut. Here's a snippet of what I wrote in reply to this mother's question:<br />
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<i>I have to strongly disagree with the comments that curiosity is normal and not to worry about it. With a husband who's a pastor we see far too often the devastating effects of porn addiction. Nobody sets out planning to wreck their life or family through viewing what is pleasurable. If you don't take the time to teach your son self control now it will be so much harder for him as an adult. <br />
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I know my comment is passionate and stern, but these are MEN we are raising! Men who we hope will be responsible, productive, leaders with great character. That takes diligence and often hard choices on the part of the parent. This is a crucial moment.</i><br />
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I also talked about the precautions we take as a family regarding internet and media, and briefly shared that we had personally faced this issue at home. <br />
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I posted my comment assuming based on previous replies that my comment would be taken as harsh, rigid, and all about rules. Less than three hours later more than 200 people had liked my comment and several had verbalized their agreement. <br />
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So why all the soft comments before mine? Why hadn't others taken time to state the obvious - that protecting the purity of our children is ULTRA important? And why weren't others voicing the very real dangers of pornography? <br />
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I honestly think that we've become so used to having to keep quiet and only agree with one another that we're afraid to speak up or be different. Here's the thing. When it comes to your family, have the guts to stand up for what is right! Be the mean parent if you have to be. Be the weird ones that don't participate in the "latest, greatest". If you deem it as damaging, then say no. Long term health for our kids and our families is so much more important that fitting in for the moment. I'm preaching to you adults here! Show your kids that self control is possible through your own decisions. Demonstrate for them how to be different, pure, strong. Share with your kids about your own struggles with sin and allow them to be vulnerable with you. Please, don't assume your kids are "fine" just because you haven't heard of any issues yet. Check in and begin conversations.<br />
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I recently had the privilege of hearing some parents talk with their teen about the pornography they had found him looking at. He quietly admitted that the day they found out was the worst day of his life. He was so ashamed. BUT THEN, he looked at his parents and said they had done the right thing by removing his phone. He thanked them for their interference because he no longer had to hide and he felt safer from that which was so tempting to him. His honesty floored me. But it also confirmed what I've known for a long time. Kids want their parents to watch out for them!<br />
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Parents, the buck stops with you. There is an endless barrage of material for our kids to see and hear at any moment. And as we all know, they are curious by nature. Guide that curiosity and TALK, TALK, TALK! Be vigilant, be proactive, stand firm. Your kids are counting on you and our society needs men and women of character. It's up to you.Alihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6986849312523131089.post-19955844120807894482015-08-09T18:31:00.000-05:002015-09-08T13:56:38.599-05:00Easy Dill PicklesDill pickles can be a pain to can. A lot of recipes take days for the brining process. If you're swimming in pickling cukes and don't want everything sitting around for days on end as your pickles are in process, then try this recipe from the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Blue-Guide-Preserving-Jarden-Brands/dp/B005SK6Y1Q/ref=sr_1_2?s=home-garden&ie=UTF8&qid=1439162323&sr=1-2&keywords=ball+blue+book">Ball Blue Book</a>. We've found it to be our favorite recipe for good sandwich pickles. <br />
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<i><b>Hamburger Dills</b><br />
This recipe makes enough liquid for 7 pint jars. <br />
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Wash and drain your cucumbers. No need to peel them. Just cut them into thin slices (about 1/4" thick). Do not use the very ends of the cucumbers.<br />
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Place your cucumber slices in pint jars. <br />
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Add in 2 heads of dill, 1/2 teaspoon of mustard seed, and 2 peppercorns for each jar. <br />
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Meanwhile, combine 4 1/2 cups of water, 4 cups of vinegar, and 6 Tablespoons of canning salt in a saucepan. Bring to a boil.<br />
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Once your jars are filled, ladle the hot liquid into the jars leaving 1/4" headspace. <br />
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Adjust lids and rings. <br />
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Process 15 minutes in a boiling water canner.<br />
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Easy!<br />
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I will add a few tips. If you can possibly grow your own dill, DO! It's expensive in the store and at home it will produce well and will come back in following years. Well worth the initial time and money to plant. <br />
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Also, if you wait until cucumbers are prolific in everyone's gardens to do your shopping, you may struggle to find the correct ingredients. I try to stock up on mustard seed in particular as that is almost always off the shelves at this time of year. <br />
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Lastly, you can use any cucumbers to make pickles. But if you use garden cukes you'll find the seeds to be much larger. Ideally you should plant pickling cukes and harvest them when the cucumbers are about 4 inches long. Alihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6986849312523131089.post-84252198097841584132015-07-27T17:33:00.000-05:002015-07-27T17:36:07.904-05:00How To Can PeachesSummertime is the time for peaches! And if you are like many of the people in my family, you wish you could enjoy their fresh taste all year. Canning peaches is incredibly easy and allows you to get that delicious Georgia peach taste even in the dead of winter. <br />
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We typically buy a 25lb box of peaches (half a bushel) and get about 13 quarts of peaches out of it. Not a lot, but still enough for at least one jar a month. <br />
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To begin, make sure your peaches are soft, but not overripe. If the peaches are too tough, they'll be difficult to peel. If too soft, you'll run into the same problem. And instead of leaving them in the box to ripen, spread them out on a table. This will separate any that have small bruises from the rest of the bunch and will keep the good peaches from rotting. <br />
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Once your peaches are ready, simply peel the skins from the outside of your peaches. I typically use a sharp, small knife for this job. If the skins don't come off easily, you can dip the peaches in boiling water for 10-30 seconds and then immediately submerge them in ice water. The point is not to cook the peaches, but to loosen the skin. <br />
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After peeling your peaches, slice them in half and take out the pit. The easiest way to get the pit out is with a spoon. Gently loosen around the pit and it'll pop right out. <br />
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Place your peach halves pit side down in WIDE mouth jars. Using wide mouths allows you to fit peach halves in your jars. You may think that cutting the peaches into smaller slices will allow you to fit more, but after experimentation, we've found that you can fit the same amount whether you use quarters or halves. <br />
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Fill the jar with your peach halves. <br />
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Make a syrup of sugar and water. You'll want 1 cup sugar to every 3 cups water. It takes about a cup and half to fill each jar, so make plenty of this. Place the sugar and water in a saucepan and heat until the sugar is melted. Do not boil this as you don't want your good syrup to boil down. <br />
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Pour the syrup into the jars over the peaches leaving 1/2" of headspace. Remove bubbles and place the lid and ring on the jar. <br />
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Process the jars at 5lb pressure for 10 minutes and then allow to cool completely. <br />
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<i>Note: For reasons I can't explain, some jars do lose liquid during the pressure canning stage. These jars are still fine to store so long as the seal is good. If you store the jars for several years, you may find some browning on the top peaches. Just remove those peaches and eat the ones underneath. But really, these peaches aren't going to last several years! You'll have eaten them long before that!!</i>Alihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6986849312523131089.post-37835364895209455332015-07-26T15:28:00.001-05:002015-07-26T15:38:10.281-05:00Easy Gardening Hack to Deter PestsWe have gardens. And we have an entire clan of rabbits living in our yard. For years we've lost the battle of the bunnies. But this year we finally got smart and discovered a great way to keep them out of our plants. <br />
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Last year we put in several garden boxes. These helped by raising our beds of beans, broccoli, and carrots, but they just aren't quite high enough to fully keep the rabbits out. We've put up fencing - even RABBIT fencing - and still those little stinkers get into our garden. <br />
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This year we tried a new method born of desperation. My husband purchased a roll of shrink wrap - the kind used to wrap dressers and such when you are moving. It can be found pretty cheaply at most hardware stores. He then placed regular garden fencing posts at each corner of our raised beds. He then carefully wrapped the box in several layers of shrink wrap. By bringing the wrap all the way to the ground it prevents little pests from getting into the box underneath the wraps. And because of the posts at each corner, the wrap can go as high as you need it to. Ours ended up a little over knee high. <br />
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You know what? It works!! We'll now do this every year. Not only have we kept the bunnies out but also the chipmunks, neighbor dogs, and stray kittens that we've previously found in our gardens. The sun and rain still get into the box from above. And given that we live in a colder climate, the wraps keep just enough moisture and warmth in the boxes to provide a perfect growing environment for young plants. <br />
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It's midsummer now and our garden boxes are flourishing. We still have our wraps on. Wind and rain have not torn them off. And we're discovering the extra bonus that it keeps our plants from spilling over the sides of the boxes where they get trampled by the busy feet of children helping with garden chores. <br />
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Go ahead and give it a try! I'd love to hear your thoughts.Alihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6986849312523131089.post-29321798201051138202015-07-17T17:44:00.000-05:002015-07-26T15:43:01.324-05:00DIY Laundry Detergent<br />
For over a year now we've been making our own laundry detergent. With such a huge family the cost of detergent was eating huge chunks out of our monthly grocery budget. This recipe works great in both cold and hot water and does an excellent job of cleaning clothes well - even little boy clothes! It's super economical - only about $25 or less and lasts our family of 8 for six months. So if you've got a family smaller than that and don't have to do two loads of laundry a day, it'll last even longer! <br />
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I have found all of the supplies at WalMart in the laundry aisle. You'd likely be able to find them at your local grocery store or possibly even the hardware store. Once you've got your ingredients it only takes about a half hour to put together and then you're set! <br />
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<b>LAUNDRY SOAP:</b><br />
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1 4lb 12oz box of Borax<br />
1 4lb box Arm & Hammer Baking Soda<br />
1 55oz box Arm & Hammer Super Washing Soda<br />
3 bars of Fels-Naptha Soap<br />
2 small containers of Oxy Clean (3 lbs each)<br />
Optional: laundry crystals for scent (I don't use these)<br />
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Grate the bars of Fels-Naptha soap. I use my food processor for this and it works quickly and efficiently.<br />
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Combine all ingredients in a large bucket and mix well. I use my hands to mix it. It does take some arm strength. You could also use a large spoon. <br />
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Use one of the scoops that comes with the oxy clean (usually about 1-2 Tbs - depending on the size and soil amount in your laundry) per load. <br />
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<i>Tip: I have eliminated dryer sheets and fabric softener by making my own wool dryer balls. Simply get some washed wool and use a felting tool to make a large ball. Two or three of these balls used together in the dryer will remove static, eliminate the need for fabric softener, and will noticeably cut your drying time. </i>Alihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6986849312523131089.post-7167100058548952302015-03-02T22:23:00.002-06:002015-07-26T15:36:19.134-05:00Gone Too Soon: Where is God When an Untimely Death Occurs?<br />
Today I learned that a high school classmate recently died. He was 38 years old. Only 38. <br />
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Far too young to die, most would say. Surely you've heard that phrase as often as I have. Perhaps you've even said it. <br />
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It is the idea of untimely death that has me thinking tonight.<br />
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Aren't all deaths "untimely"? Few of us wake in the morning and think, "Today's the day. I expect to die today." At some time or another during our journeys on this earth, we will all feel the emptiness of a lost loved one and long for even just one more day with them.<br />
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The Bible actually tells us that <b>no</b> deaths are untimely. Psalm 139:16 says, <i>"... all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be."</i><br />
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If this is true, then what the Bible is saying is that before we are even born, God has planned the number of our days. He knows in advance how many years, days, minutes we'll have on this earth. If God knows all of our days, then it stands to reason that nothing can take us out of this world before our days are done, and nothing can keep us here longer than the number of days set forth for each one of us. Death, although often a surprise to us, is never a surprise to God.<br />
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I find this to be encouraging news. Why? Because life is not without purpose. Life is not without hope. Yes, physical death will eventually come for all of us, but until that time, we have LIFE! What will you choose to do with it?<br />
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We all have a tendency to get stuck. Some of us are stuck in the past either wanting to relive our youth or doing all we can to bury the pain of the past. Others are stuck in the future. It's good to look forward to the future, but we can become so preoccupied with our future plans and dreams that we forget to live in the present. <br />
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Because of looking back or looking forward, we miss our greatest calling: living today to the full. Doing the greatest good TODAY. Seeing the people around us as opportunities instead of interruptions. Reveling in the joy of simple moments. Practicing thankfulness. Getting to know the Creator of life, which has the tremendous bonus of eliminating the fear of death. <br />
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So as I reflect on a classmate's life, I'm left with a choice. Will I live today with confidence? Confidence that until my time is done, time remains. Will I make the most of the moments I'm given? Spending time with the ones I love, using the gifts I've been given, allowing myself to be a tool in the Creator's hands, and treating others with dignity and respect. I choose to live. Do you?Alihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6986849312523131089.post-10494231111033296952015-01-23T22:48:00.003-06:002015-07-26T15:36:43.275-05:00Message of Hope to the Whining Mom<br />
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Today I'm sick. I have lost my voice and have struggled all day to communicate to my children using large gestures, finger snaps, and whistles. But worse than me being sick is seeing my littlest fight the same bug. His fever is high and his little head is miserable in all ways: stuffy nose, watery eyes, sore throat, and headache. <br />
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He spent much of the day snuggling on my lap today. Every so often I'd try to coax some liquid into his mouth despite his protests. But for the most part we sat in silence. Me due to laryngitis and he due to pure exhaustion.<br />
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At one point this afternoon, just about the time that his meds were wearing off, I heard his whines change to a familiar sound. My little one year old began singing "Hallelujah". He closed his eyes, raised his arm, and offered praise to his Maker. After a few times through, he looked at me and clearly expected that I would sing along. Normally, this is our routine, but today I had little voice to be able to join in. His insistence won out though, and I quietly croaked out hallelujahs with him. <br />
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Moments before, I had been the picture of patient motherhood. But inside I had been a complaining, whiny mess. While my baby whined outwardly, I whined in my mind. "Why now? I have so much to do!", "Are we ever going to finally be healthy again?", "How am I to speak at a baby shower, attend a prayer service, and bring a meal to another family tomorrow when THIS is what my day will be like?", "Lord, I thought you called me to these things, and now you've left me here to wallow in runny noses and complaining children!" <br />
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And then ... "Hallelujah!" <br />
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There was my little one reminding me, forcing me to praise the Lord. <br />
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We are sick. <i>This is not the norm for us.</i> Hallelujah!<br />
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I may have to miss events tomorrow. <i>There are many ready to jump in and pinch hit for me.</i> Hallelujah! <br />
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Germs abide in our house. <i>Clorox wipes do too.</i> Hallelujah!<br />
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We missed a day of homeschooling. <i>We watched several shows connected to our studies on India that I've been having trouble fitting into the schedule.</i> Hallelujah!<br />
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I am cooking for someone else tomorrow. <i>Because of their dietary needs, I had planned a very simple soup that's a cinch to make. And, it's not us needing the meals.</i> Hallelujah!<br />
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I fuss about sitting on the couch cradling a feverish baby. <i>The videos we watched depicted families sitting on dirt floors cradling dying children. My situation is not so bad.</i> Hallelujah!<br />
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<i>From the lips of children and infants you have ordained praise because of your enemies, to silence the foe and the avenger. When I consider your heavens, the work of your fingers, the moon and the stars, which you have set in place, what is man that you are mindful of him, the son of man that you care for him? You made him a little lower than the heavenly beings and crowned him with glory and honor. You made him ruler over the works of your hands; you put everything under his feet: all flocks and herds, and the beasts of the field, the birds of the air, and the fish of the sea, all that swim the paths of the seas. O LORD, our Lord, how majestic is your name in all the earth! - Psalm 8:2-9</i><br />
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Hallelujah!Alihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6986849312523131089.post-58697525289407176222014-12-22T20:01:00.002-06:002015-07-26T15:37:16.386-05:00Last Minute FREE Stocking StuffersChristmas is only a few days away. Hopefully you've made good headway on your shopping, cards, baking, and preparations. But if you're like me, you may look through your stash of stocking stuffers to find you're a bit short. <br />
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What to do?<br />
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Here's a simple idea that takes little time but will be appreciated by kids. Plus, it has the bonus of being tailored to your specific children and is limited only by your own creativity! <br />
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This year I made about 10 special coupons for each of my older kids. I had fun thinking of things they'd really like ... or things they'd enjoy NOT having to do. <br />
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Here's what a few of my coupons looked like. I wrote them with specific names on each one so that the kids won't be able to trade them. No fair suckering a younger sibling to give up a movie night in exchange for one less chore!<br />
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Other ideas include things like a special date with mom or dad where the kid picks the activity or food, getting out of cleaning the basement (which is our toy abyss), inviting a friend over for the afternoon, and some extra time for video games. Since we homeschool I was even able to put in a coupon for skipping one subject on a particularly frustrating school day. <br />
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But this is my particular favorite:<br />
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Have fun with it! It's a free and fun way to add a personal touch to your gift giving. It'll show your kids how well you know them and can even set you up for some special moments with them. <br />
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Merry Christmas!Alihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6986849312523131089.post-53964248353797821802014-09-26T22:14:00.002-05:002015-07-26T15:37:51.577-05:00Potty Train Quickly and With Minimal Stress<br />
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I'll start right out with this: I hate potty training. With child number five I spent several weeks in denial before finally admitting that the day to start was staring me right in the face. But I'm about to let you in on a little secret about potty training. It can be done with just one seriously intense day and about a week of reminders for your little one. <br />
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The first thing we've done is let go of the expectation that our 18 month old or 2 year old will potty train successfully. We wait until our kids are three years old. This is especially for boys, but I'd wait with girls until at least closer to 2 1/2. There are several cognitive abilities that need to be developed before children are ready to train. They must be able to hear, remember, and obey at least three simple directions at once. So, something like, "Run to the potty, pull down your undies, and pee," must be a reasonable request.<br />
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<i>(A lot of people talk about using peeing dolls to aid in their child's understanding. Hogwash! Why go and buy an expensive doll that drinks and pees when you can just set your child up in the bathroom with Mom or Dad (depending on the sex of your child) to watch an actual live person? Dolls are great for pretend, but you want your child to go potty in reality. So show them how.)</i><br />
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We begin by really talking up the potty experience long before we actually start using the potty. We build anticipation and talk about how diapers are for babies and undies are for big boys/girls. We let our child watch us go potty to get an idea of what he'll be doing. And we talk about it in excited tones and with big smiles. <br />
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On the day of, we take off the diaper in the morning and congratulate our child on becoming a big boy. It is absolutely crucial to this method that you switch completely to underwear! Even at bedtime. Yes, it sounds painful for mom and dad, and it can be, but it is necessary to give the message that they are no longer a baby and only wear underwear. <br />
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We take our child to the potty. Most of our boys have started out by standing. Three year old boys are typically just the right height to stand at the potty. They don't need to direct their pee because it just heads straight into the toilet. We've had one boy prefer to start sitting, but within a week he was willing to try standing. Sometimes, putting cheerios into the toilet for boys to aim at can be very helpful. Girls are easier because they don't have to aim. Sit them on the seat and let them go! <br />
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One tip I haven't personally tried but have heard works well is turning children to face the back of the toilet when sitting. It allows them to hug the tank and feel more secure on the toilet. I typically let my children hug <i>me</i> if they feel insecure, so I haven't tried turning them around, but it sounds like a great idea (and a back saver for mom!). <br />
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It may take a few times of trying before your child really gets the feeling of going potty. We had one child try for the entire day and finally at 8pm went 9 times in a row in the potty. What a relief! Most kids don't take that long. <br />
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You begin by first having your child feel the front of their undies. You ask if the undies are dry or wet and he will reply with dry. You praise him for having dry undies! Explain that dry undies are comfortable and that dry undies are what we want to have. Have your child try to go potty. Even if they can't yet, it's okay. Tell them that you are proud of them for trying. Since their undies are dry, let them have a treat. My kids love candy and it's a rarity in the house. We just put out a bowl of m&m's and whenever they have dry undies, they get one. <br />
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Set your timer for 10 minutes and let your child play. At the end of 10 minutes, go to your child and have them check their undies. Are they dry or wet? If dry, praise them and bring them to the bathroom to try going. If they have stayed dry through trying, give them a treat. <br />
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If your child is able to actually pee into the toilet, throw a party! Call a family member or friend who will celebrate on the phone with you. Clap and cheer and make a huge deal out of it. Give the child 2 m&m's for going in the potty. <br />
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Continue to set the timer for every 10 minutes that first day. It's a long day. Long. It may be wise to begin on a day when your spouse can relieve you from potty duty halfway through the day. If you have older children, involve them in the process. <br />
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It WILL happen that your child will wet in their underwear. When you ask your child to check their undies and the response is that the undies are wet, the real work begins. This is the time to practice getting to the potty. Voice your dismay at wet undies. Explain that when he needs to pee, he should run to the bathroom. Then say, "Let's practice!" Grab his hand and run with him to the bathroom. Pull down the wet undies and have him try going. If he can't pee (which he usually can't because he's just gone in his undies), pull up the wet underwear. Leave the wet undies on! This sounds awful, but it's a key part of the training. Go to a different spot in the house and start the exercise over again. Ask if the undies are dry. Of course, you'll get the answer that they aren't. Remind your child that when he needs to pee, he must run to the bathroom. Run with him and have him try to go again. Do this 10 times. Yes, 10 times. <br />
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At first, your child will think this is a fun game. After a few times of wet underwear, he'll hate it and so will you. But it very clearly sends the message that wet undies are undesirable. He'll very quickly learn that it's worth it to get to the potty before he pees.<br />
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Once the practice is done and you've accomplished your 10th try of running to the bathroom, you give your child fresh, dry underwear. Then have him check and praise him for having dry undies. Give him an m&m. If at any time during the practice he is able to get some pee into the potty, praise him and discontinue the practice. Give him fresh undies and a treat. <br />
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I have trained 5 children with this method and all have been using the potty consistently by the end of the first day. Typically they still have about one accident a day for the first three or four days. When your child takes himself to the bathroom without any prompting, you can consider him trained. That sometimes takes up to a week. Until then, continue prompting, but stretch the amount of time between prompts. <br />
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Push the fluids on the day of potty training. The more your child drinks the more opportunities for success they will have. <br />
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Have a special treat for bowel movements. These are sometimes scary for kids, so promising a really special treat can help them buck up their courage. <br />
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Plan to be home for about a week. Until your child is really comfortable with using the bathroom in your home, you shouldn't introduce a different bathroom. And for a long time (months), any time you go out, point out where the bathroom is immediately upon arriving at your destination.<br />
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Fill the day with positives. The practice times are hard emotionally. Be sure that you are filling up your child with positive remarks all day long. And maybe order in pizza as a positive for you!<br />
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Set a flannel backed plastic tablecloth underneath your child's bedsheet. Bed wetting will happen in the beginning. Be prepared with extra sheets, underwear, and a blanket on hand.<br />
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Plastic underwear covers are your friend. If potty training in the summer, beware that these cause your child to sweat. But these will keep most of the pee in the underwear cover instead of on the bed. And it allows your child to still feel the sensation of wetness intead of absorbing it like a diaper or pull up would. <br />
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Have patience, and take this all with a grain of salt. With six kids, I now know that there is no formula to parenting. What works for your friend's kids may not work for yours. And what works for one child in a family may not work for their siblings. With that said, please recognize that while this method has worked for five of my children, please do not use it if you feel it won't work for yours. You know your children best!<br />
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Alihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6986849312523131089.post-27151695352142613702014-09-26T21:20:00.001-05:002015-07-26T16:19:15.915-05:00Good Vibes, Positive Thoughts, and Prayer<br />
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A friend posted something on facebook the other day asking for prayer about an upcoming trial in life. Several people chimed in offering their support through prayer and many sent well wishes. Others said they'd be sending good vibes and positive thoughts. All mean well, but it has me wondering something. Just what will good vibes and positive thoughts do for this friend of mine? <br />
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Oh sure, she might be encouraged to know her friends are thinking of her. It's always nice to know that people care about you. But really, when the tough day comes, how will those good vibes help her? <br />
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As Christians, it's really easy to say, "I'll pray for you," whenever a friend expresses a need. But it's time to evaluate. Are we really doing what we promise? <br />
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When I first moved to St. Louis, a very wise woman shared with me that she had decided to forego using the phrase "I'll pray for you." Instead she would take the friend or acquaintance aside and pray for and with them on the spot. She didn't wait. She said, "Let's pray about that now." If the opportunity to pray at that moment wasn't feasible, she had a different phrase. She'd say, "I'll pray for you whenever the Lord brings you to mind." Now that's a promise you can keep! <br />
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The Bible tells us that prayer is the most powerful tool we have. It gives us direct access to <i>GOD</i>!! When we pray, we are going before the throne of the living God. We are placing our friends, our loved ones, those we meet, and even some we've never encountered, into the Lord's hands. We are recognizing His authority and His power. And if you want to understand the power of prayer, just read a few accounts in the Bible. Passages such as when Abraham prayed for the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah (Genesis 18), times when Moses prayed for the Israelites (Exodus 32), Hannah's prayer for a child (1 Samuel 1), Paul and Silas's prayer in prison (Acts 16). God hears our prayers and he answers.<br />
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Which brings me back to these good vibes and positive thoughts. If prayer is the tool that brings us and our loved ones into the presence of Almighty God, what do these vibes and thoughts do? Are thoughts the same as prayers? <br />
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I have to say that thoughts aren't the same as prayer. I used to trick myself into thinking that if I had thought much of someone during the day, it equated to me having prayed much for them. But that's a nasty little trick the father of lies wants us to believe. It keeps us from actually spending time in prayer to God. Prayer is a conversation with God. Thinking is a conversation with oneself. Thinking of a person is great ... for you. But it does nothing to improve anything for the other party. Of course, you could easily make a case that thinking of someone leads you to check in on them and offer help. If that actually happens, then kudos to you! But I know that in my own life, it is a rare friend who offers to pray and then will actually follow up with questions or a phone call days later. If thinking leads you to action, that's terrific. But it's still not as powerful as prayer. <br />
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I'm not even sure where to go with the good vibes thing. I'm guessing that thought emerges from the belief that we are all connected by our energy. If I think positively of you (sending you good vibes) then you'll somehow subconsciously pick up on that positive vibration and it will have a good effect on your body/mind/soul. Honestly I don't get it. I could sit in the living room sending positive vibes to my cranky toddler all day long and it won't improve his mood. He'd simply think I was being a selfish and neglectful mommy sitting alone on the couch while he has needs in the other room. <br />
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Friends, can we do this: when we want to positively impact someone, let's actually do the monumental and life-changing task of praying for them. Stop sending vibes and thoughts that are only impacting you. Take your friends before the throne of grace and put them and their needs into the hands of the Creator. Far more will be accomplished. It doesn't take much time; it doesn't have to be long. You don't have to be on your knees or in a quiet place. <i>Pray with out ceasing</i> (1 Thessalonians 5:17). Can you imagine what could be accomplished if we actually took that to heart? Oh, that it would be so!<br />
Alihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6986849312523131089.post-21144017415878731282014-09-16T19:01:00.000-05:002015-07-26T15:50:01.930-05:00Ordinary Grows BeautyI recently watched this video promoting Francis and Lisa Chan's book <a href="http://www.amazon.com/You-Me-Forever-Marriage-Eternity/dp/0990351408/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1410908369&sr=8-1&keywords=francis+chan+book">"You and Me Forever"</a>. <br />
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The video features our friends, Mike and Sharon, who, after having three children went on to adopt nine more. Their children are growing up and some have reached adulthood and are doing amazing things for the Kingdom of God. It's easy to look at their family and think that their life must be charmed. But I know they have faced plenty of hardships and difficulties. Sharon says it in her own words in the video and this particular quote stuck with me long after the video stopped playing. <br />
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<i>"Serving God takes a lot of submission and a lot of repetitious, unglamorous work. I think people can look at our family and see 12 vivacious kids and think, 'Wow! What a beautiful thing!' But that involved years and years of doing the same thing over and over again. You have to be willing to make yourself nothing sometimes and then He blesses those efforts in the end and makes it into something beautiful."</i><br />
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I love this quote because it so well describes what life really is. Behind every person doing great things for the Lord is a lot of day in and day out faithfulness. It takes me straight to the verse I have adopted as my motto for these years with children at home. "Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin." (Zechariah 4:10) And this, "Everyone to whom much was given, of him much will be required, and from him to whom they entrusted much, they will demand the more." (Luke 12:48)<br />
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Probably very few of those reading this will have 12 kids like the Dennehy clan. And none of us will have identical lives to each other. But each of us has been given much with which to be faithful. Perhaps it's your work, your family, your possessions, your ministry, your friends. We all have small beginnings in our lives; areas in which we are called to work faithfully. Things that require day in and day out, over and over again actions. Things that can seem monotonous, dull, and frustrating in the moment. <br />
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Whether or not you look closely enough at someone's life to see the mundane, it is there. I know it is present in my life. The question then is not, "Will I have to do the mundane, ordinary things to serve God?" The question is, "How can I be faithful in doing the mundane and ordinary?"<br />
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The answer? Keep on. Do the next thing and practice thankfulness. Remember your blessings and from whom they come. Be faithful even in these little things and God will make something beautiful out of the ordinary. Alihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6986849312523131089.post-22511652560586295662014-09-16T07:43:00.000-05:002015-07-26T15:39:19.577-05:00High Rise Apple PancakesIt's the time of year for apples. Apple pie, apple crisp, applesauce, apples with caramel ... there are so many delicious things to do with apples! <br />
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One of our favorites is a little known recipe for High Rise Apple Pancakes also sometimes called German Apple Pancakes. They are simple to make and soooo good as a dinner, breakfast, or dessert. <br />
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You may want to double the recipe though, because it's hard to eat just one helping!<br />
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<b>High Rise Apple Pancakes:</b><br />
(serves 3-4)<br />
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Heat oven to 450 degrees with a large cast iron pan (if you have one) in the oven.<br />
(<i>If doubling the recipe, use two pans</i>)<br />
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While the oven is heating, prepare the batter and topping.<br />
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<b>Batter:</b><br />
2 eggs slightly beaten<br />
1/2 C flour<br />
1/2 C milk<br />
1/4 t salt<br />
1 T butter<br />
Combine ingredients and beat until smooth.<br />
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When the oven reaches 450 degrees, coat skillet with butter; immediately pour in the batter.<br />
Bake in the lowest rack of the oven at 450 for 10 minutes. Reduce heat to 350; bake for 10 minutes.<br />
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While the batter is cooking, cook the topping. <br />
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<b>Topping:</b><br />
1/4 C butter<br />
1/2 t cinnamon<br />
4-6 C apples, sliced<br />
1/2 C sugar<br />
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Melt butter in skillet over low heat. Add apple mixture; cover and cook until apples are tender while the batter is cooking in the oven. <br />
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When the batter is done, pull it out of the oven. Slice and serve covered with apple mixture. Serve immediately.Alihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6986849312523131089.post-29280697373474324322014-08-21T19:26:00.000-05:002015-07-26T15:39:40.103-05:00Canning Green BeansThis year we were blessed with a bumper crop of green beans. We typically plant bush beans, but for several years we've struggled to get a good crop. After tender care of our plants and lots of hopeful waiting we ended up swimming in beans!<br />
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So, what to do with all of them? I love raw and cooked green beans, but there's only so many you can eat in one summer. We choose to can our green beans. It's a great fresh veggie to have all winter long and it makes for a simple side dish to throw together. <br />
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After harvesting your beans, you'll want to snap the ends off. Just the very tip of the end is all you need to pull off. As you can see by the picture, little helpers do tend to remove a little more than necessary. But it's always great for them to help out. And beans provide an excellent way for little ones to stay busy. <br />
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Once the ends are removed, wash your beans well. Then snap them into 1" sections. It's not necessary that they be perfectly even. But the more uniform they are the more evenly they will cook. These were snapped by my 2 year old. (I evened them out later!) <br />
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Once the beans are all snapped, pack them into jars. We use quart jars, but if you have a small family, pints may work better. You can really pack them in tightly. <br />
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After getting your jars filled, add in 1 teaspoon of salt per quart. Use 1/2 teaspoon for pint jars. <br />
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Fill the jars with water leaving about 1/2" headspace. <br />
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Screw on your lids and rings. Place in a pressure canner and process at 10 pounds pressure for 25 minutes (quarts) or 20 minutes (pints). <br />
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Remember: DON'T open your pressure canner until the pressure returns to zero. Otherwise you'll end up with burst jars. <br />
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Happy canning!Alihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6986849312523131089.post-28749058790256578992014-06-18T19:27:00.001-05:002015-07-26T15:40:04.452-05:00Rhubarb Desserts<br />
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Rhubarb season is quickly drawing to a close. Tonight I used up the last bit of mine by making two of our favorite rhubarb dishes. One we enjoyed for dessert and I sent the other along with Josh to his Bible study tonight. I sure hope there's a bit left for me to enjoy once he gets home! <br />
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Both recipes came from dear friends at our church. I love to think of them whenever I bake these delicious desserts.<br />
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<b>Barb's Blueberry Rhubarb Crisp</b><br />
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2-3 C blueberries (frozen or fresh)<br />
2-3 C rhubarb<br />
<i>(I rarely measure these. I just dump until the bottom of a 9x13 pan looks full)</i><br />
1/2 C flour<br />
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<i>**If you choose to just use rhubarb and no blueberries use 4 cups of rhubarb, 1/4 cup of flour, and 1 cup of sugar. With the blueberries you really don't need any sugar.**</i><br />
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Mix flour and fruit in a greased 9x13 pan.<br />
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For the topping:<br />
1 C brown sugar<br />
1 C oats<br />
1 1/2 C flour<br />
1 C butter<br />
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Mix the ingredients together with a pastry cutter until crumbly. Sprinkle over top of the fruit. <br />
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Bake at 375 for 45 minutes. Serve warm with vanilla ice cream.<br />
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<b>Grandma Mary's Rhubarb Cake</b><br />
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1 yellow cake mix prepared according to box directions. <br />
Spread cake mix in a greased 9x13 pan.<br />
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Over top of the unbaked cake mix spread the following mixture:<br />
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2 1/2 C rhubarb<br />
1 1/2 C sugar<br />
1 C heavy cream<br />
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Mix these ingredients together before spreading over cake batter. If desired you can include a little cinnamon or nutmeg.<br />
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Bake at 350 until the cake tests done. This will typically take a little longer than the box indicates. <br />
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The rhubarb will be on the bottom of the cake. And the cream will have created an incredibly moist cake. Alihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6986849312523131089.post-36466996969313053212014-06-17T14:45:00.001-05:002015-07-26T15:40:22.848-05:00Strawberry Freezer Jam<br />
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So many people have asked how I make strawberry jam. If you have some extra freezer space this recipe is my favorite. It stays a beautiful pink/red color and is a taste of fresh strawberries throughout the year. <br />
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I simply use the recipe for freezer jam found in the PINK box of Surejell. I always buy the pink box because the resulting jam isn't overly sweet. Strawberries fresh from the garden are sweet enough on their own. <br />
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Clean and remove the tops from about 4 cups of strawberries. <br />
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About one cup at a time, mash the strawberries with a hand masher. Jam should have chunks, so don't worry about getting your strawberries completely mashed. <br />
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Continue to add berries and mash until you have EXACTLY 4 cups. Measurements are very important in making jam if you want it to set properly, so measure carefully. <br />
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In a bowl combine 3 cups of sugar and one package of the surejell (pink box). Mix well. Then pour it into a saucepan and add 1 cup of water. Place on medium high heat until the mixture begins to boil. Be sure to stir CONSTANTLY throughout the cooking process. Once the sugar water begins to boil, time it for 1 minute, stirring all the while. <br />
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After the minute is up, remove the pan from the heat. Add the berries and stir for one minute. <br />
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Ladle the mixture into jars and cover with lids. <br />
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These jars will need to sit at room temperature for about 24 hours before going into the freezer or fridge. This will ensure that the jam sets up well. <br />
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The jam can be frozen for a year or kept in the fridge for 3 weeks. <br />
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If for some reason your jam doesn't set up, you can always use it on ice cream or in other desserts. Don't throw it out! But if you follow these directions, you really shouldn't have any issues. <br />
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Hope you enjoy it!Alihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6986849312523131089.post-39521723801677984192014-06-16T21:34:00.000-05:002015-07-26T15:41:10.144-05:00A fresh bit of summer all year long!I LOVE strawberry rhubarb pie. In fact, I think it's my absolute favorite kind of pie. I always get a little jealous of my family members with June birthdays because they can choose it for their birthday dessert. But my birthday is in December and every year I long for the taste of summer on my special day. <br />
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Until this year I hadn't found a good way of preserving strawberries and rhubarb. I've tried freezing the fruit separately, but both end up watery once defrosted. I've been leery of canning the pie filling because the recipes I find are so different from my tried and true pie filling. Plus, in the pictures I've seen of canned pie filling the fruit is always a little off color. <br />
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This year I stumbled across this <a href="http://hickeryhollerfarm.blogspot.com/2012/05/strawberry-rhubarb-pie-in-bag.html">blog</a> on pinterest. The author claimed that creating the pie filling and then freezing it fully prepared in a ziploc bag would work. I was a bit skeptical, but decided to try it. <br />
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Oh my, delicious!<br />
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I froze two pie fillings. I then waited a week before defrosting and baking. The pies were amazing. The first one turned out a little watery so with the second I simply drained off a little of the excess liquid. It set up so well and was incredibly good. Today I made five more batches to save for winter. I can't wait to pull them out of the freezer and enjoy the taste of fresh summer fruit in the dead of winter. <br />
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Here's how:<br />
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Step 1: Harvest your rhubarb and your strawberries. <br />
<i>(You really don't want to wait too long to get to your rhubarb. If it has holes in the insides of the stalks, you've waited too long. It can end up with a "woody" taste if you wait too long.)</i><br />
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Step 2: Chop your berries and rhubarb into small pieces. About 3 cups of each.<br />
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Step 3: Add in the sugar and flour. Allow the ingredients to maserate (mix) for about 20 minutes. You will no longer notice the sugar and flour as you stir, but instead will see a bit of syrup forming around the fruit. <br />
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Step 4: Place the mixture in a freezer bag. I highly recommend getting a vacuum sealer like <a href="http://www.amazon.com/FoodSaver-GameSaver-Deluxe-Vacuum-Sealing/dp/B0018ESBVM/ref=sr_1_4?s=kitchen&ie=UTF8&qid=1402972039&sr=1-4&keywords=vacuum+sealers">this one</a>. Ziplocs work but will allow freezer burn after an extended time in the freezer.<br />
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Step 5: Once ready to make a pie, simply defrost your bag, remove a little bit of the excess liquid, make a pie crust and bake. <br />
<i>(For best results, allow your pie to set overnight. The filling will thicken and you'll have a perfect pie in the morning.)</i><br />
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ENJOY!<br />
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Here's my recipe for <b>AWESOME STRAWBERRY RHUBARB PIE</b>:<br />
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3C strawberries, cut<br />
3C rhubarb, cut<br />
2/3 C flour<br />
2 C sugar<br />
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Mix the ingredients in a large bowl. Pour into prepared crust.<br />
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<b>Top and Bottom Pie Crust:</b><br />
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2 C flour<br />
1 stick + 2 T butter (not margarine!)<br />
1 t salt<br />
6 T very cold water<br />
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Mix all with a pastry cutter or by hand. Divide in half and turn out onto a floured surface. Roll out a bottom and top crust. Place bottom crust in the pie pan, fill with pie filling, cover with top crust. Turn excess crust under around all the edges to seal the pie. Flute with a fork or spoon. Poke a few holes in the top of the pie.<br />
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<i>(It's always a good idea to bake a pie on top of a cookie sheet in case any filling oozes out.)</i><br />
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Bake at 425 degrees for 55 minutes. Alihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6986849312523131089.post-73605552822213710832014-04-09T16:27:00.001-05:002015-07-26T15:41:54.280-05:00A Room for the Lego EnthusiastLittle plastic bricks of varying shapes and sizes. Red, yellow, green, blue, gray, black, and white. Hair pieces, heads, weapons, legs, and head gear. Wheels and gears, windows and doors. <br />
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If you know what I'm talking about then you must have at least one lego enthusiast in your home. I have six, counting my husband and not yet counting our youngest child! Lego has exploded in my home. My children save money to buy lego, they ask for it for gifts, and a visit to a lego store is like stumbling upon the holy grail.<br />
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With so many lego enthusiasts, we decided to swap out our guest room for a lego room. About a year and a half ago we made the switch and I have never done a better thing for my sanity. For the most part, we let the kids go wild in there. They rarely clean it, and aside from our board games and a file cabinet, the room is completely devoted to lego. Lego is expected to stay in the lego room. No more vacuuming little pieces, no more death by lego for unsuspecting feet. <br />
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We began by putting a large table in our lego room (see pic above). It was our old kitchen table. We figured the kids would be able to use the surface for building and keep most lego off the floor. Wrong! Instead, they all fought over the space on the table. One would start a big project and then the others wouldn't have room for their buildings. We have now moved to a different solution. <br />
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We purchased six of these <a href="http://www.ikea.com/us/en/catalog/products/90251697/#/20011408">end tables</a> from Ikea for $7.99 each. <br />
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To spruce them up a bit, I painted each child's initial on a table. That way we can avoid all the squabbles over who gets to build where. Each child now has their own place to build. <br />
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Originally, we had also put up a long shelf in the lego room. This was for those special projects that the kids just weren't ready to tear apart yet. Our kids are really into Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings, Star Wars, and The Hobbit. So naturally they have purchased many sets from those movies. Instead of building the sets once and then tearing them apart, we allow them to keep the sets on the shelf and bring them down for play. As they find they don't play with particular sets, they can pull them apart and place the pieces in a labeled ziploc bag. That way each kid knows which sets are theirs and they also keep all the pieces together. As adults they can either bring those lego sets to their own households or they can choose to sell them online. (We also keep the original boxes flattened in storage in case the kids want to sell the sets someday.) We found recently that one shelf was not quite enough, so we added a second. <br />
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Now, here's the part that really is up to individual preference. <b>How do you store all the lego??</b> We used to keep our lego in a giant rolling toolbox. The special pieces went in the top compartments and the rest was in a big jumble. Our kids grew very frustrated wanting to find specific pieces but having to look through such a large mass of lego. In setting up our lego room, we decided to organize by type. We went to Menards and bought this <a href="http://www.menards.com/main/tools-hardware/tool-storage/storage-racks-containers/24-bin-bench-top-parts-storage-rack/p-1458883-c-9189.htm">wall system</a>. <br />
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Originally we used double sided tape to place a piece of each type on the front of each container so the kids would know where things went. Those pieces have long since fallen off, but the kids still remember where the pieces belong. They have sorted them by size (1x4, 2x1, 4x4, etc) and by type (windows and doors, people, weapons, gears, etc.). It works well for us and is actually the way the professionals sort their lego.<br />
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We also have this little set of drawers to keep specialized parts in. <br />
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Lastly, we keep binders full of the directions that come with various sets. Without a specific place for these, we found that direction packets would often get trampled underfoot and end up ripped or crumpled. That just results in frustration for everyone!<br />
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We love the function of our lego room. And as a mom, I love the creativity that I see in my kids through what they build. If allowed, our kids would spend hours upon hours playing with lego. It has cut down on our kids' desire for video games and other less-healthy play. And it allows their imaginations to run wild. <br />
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Do you have specific ways to deal with the lego monster at your house? I'd love to hear about it!Alihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6986849312523131089.post-19740094557007235652014-04-01T12:20:00.000-05:002015-07-26T15:42:45.077-05:00Monthly Grocery PlanningWe are a family of 8. We go through at least one gallon of milk a day, two loaves of bread every three days, and a bunch of bananas in one sitting. And we strive to live on a budget. We are a meat and potatoes kind of family. We enjoy all the food groups and don't partake in any fad diets. We simply eat healthy and in moderation. Even so, it's a lot of food!<br />
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Our oldest kids are entering the teen years and all six seem to grow non stop. I can't begin to count the number of times a day I hear the words, "I'm hungry". So, how do we keep our kids fed and not bust the budget? I can't give credit to couponing, because I really just don't take the time to do it. While I love the idea of coupons, I find that I end up buying unnecessary items just because I can get them cheap. In reality it doesn't really end up saving me money. Many people can do it well, but not me. <br />
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Instead of using coupons, we are careful list makers. We do our big grocery shopping once a month and aside from trips to the store for milk and produce, we agree to live on what we've purchased at the beginning of the month. I'll be honest, this takes a lot of planning and consideration. But you'll also find that it drastically cuts down on eating out and last minute runs to the store where buying just that one needed item is exchanged for a handful of things that look good.<br />
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So, to the nitty gritty details:<br />
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At the start of the month, I sit down with our family calendar and our meal calendar. Our meal calendar is just a regular 12 month calendar that hangs on our fridge. We write in each square what we plan to eat for dinner that evening. As I plan out our days, I keep our family calendar in front of me so that I can easily see what evenings may be rushed, when we have dinner with friends planned, when I may need to cook for a potluck or large event, etc. Now that our soccer season is starting back up, I am careful to plan crock pot meals on practice days so that my son can have a warm meal after his dinner-time practice. I know that Sundays are a time when my kids come home from church STARVING, so I either plan to have something cooking while we're at church or plan a meal that can be put together quickly once we arrive back home. <br />
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<i>As a side note, I don't often plan out the sides for our meals unless it's a side I rarely make or if I'm hosting guests or planning a holiday feast. We keep lots of canned and frozen veggies and fruit on hand from our summer garden. I simply use these to supplement our meals.</i><br />
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Once my meal plan is complete, I begin a list of the basics we'll need. This usually means that I write down the various types of meats, noodles, canned goods, breads, etc. that we'll need and then count up how many of each I need for the meals planned that month. This is the most important stage of the process. Careful list making is necessary so that you are sure to have the ingredients on hand when you make meals throughout the month.<br />
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After I've made a list of the basics, my husband and I go through the freezer and pantry together. We take into account the things that we already have in on hand. Last month we found a great sale on chicken breasts so we purchased MANY and didn't have to buy any for this month's meals. If we find something during this process that needs to be used in the near future, I may adjust a meal on the calendar to fit it in. Better to adjust and use the things you already have than to waste the money and have it go bad. <br />
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We typically do our household goods shopping at the same time as our grocery shopping. So I also take the time to go through our bathrooms, kitchen, and storage areas to check on things like paper towels, detergent, toilet paper, napkins, dish soap, shampoo, etc. These things all come out of our grocery budget so it's important to plan for these items as well. <br />
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Aside from the actual shopping, the job is nearly done. I make one more neat list to take to the store. This one is laid out by department - produce, meat, dairy, frozen, etc. It makes it simpler to find the things I need in the store and to make sure they get crossed off my list. Especially if we are shopping at several stores in one day. <br />
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I know this leaves some questions unanswered. I'll do my best to answer the ones I can think of:<br />
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<b>Where do you shop?</b> <br />
We shop in several places. We have a Sams membership and buy a lot of bulk items there. (Buying in bulk is definitely cost effective if you'll use the items in a timely way and can store it in your house.) We also like Aldi's. They actually have really good bread, yogurt, cheeses, and produce. I can't vouch for the meat, although I've heard some say that it's great. We just haven't tried it yet. We purchase our milk, oj, bananas, onions, and potatoes at Kwik Trip (gas station). They have milk and oj in a bag - which is so much cheaper and more convenient to store - and a rewards card so that you save quite a bit of money. We have our own chickens, so we never need to purchase eggs. We also buy several things at the Bent and Dent (Amish run store) nearby. If you have a Bent and Dent, check it out! I wouldn't recommend things like pasta or mixes that are not kept in a sealed plastic bag. However for cereal, medicines, canned goods, etc. it is an invaluable source! We can buy a large box of Cheerios there for $1.50 and a box of flavored oatmeal for $.75. That's a great deal!<br />
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<b>How do you store all this stuff?</b> <br />
We've allotted a few shelves in our basement as grocery shelves. It's also where we keep our canned goods from the garden. One of our kids loves to organize, so he keeps it all sorted for us. <br />
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<b>Isn't it a pain to be locked into your meal plan each day of the month?</b> <br />
I wouldn't say we're locked in. We do try to use the plan we have, but if I find we're not in the mood for something or if we need to change things around it's not a big deal. Once you've purchased what you need for the month, you just defrost or pull out what you need for any of the meals on the list. You only want to be careful that you're not stuck with tacos three times in the last week because you've switched things around so much. <br />
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<b>How much do you spend?</b> <br />
The amount we spend varies each month. It really depends on how much we already have in store before the month begins (like with the chicken) and where we shop. Depending on where we purchase various items our bottom line looks different each month. (That may not be a satisfying answer, but the answer to this question will vary for each family. Just because one person can shop for a family of four on $60 per week doesn't mean every family of four can.)<br />
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<b>How do you keep from overspending?</b> <br />
This is probably a whole blog post in and of itself! We use cash. At the beginning of the month we allot a specific amount to groceries. If we run out, then we make do with what we have. If we have extra it's exciting to put it towards our savings at the end of the month.<br />
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<b>Would this work for a small family?</b> <br />
Absolutely! This kind of meal planning is great because you can tailor it to your family and your calendar. And it's great for a home with two working parents. It allows you to avoid the evening squabble over dinner plans and the financial strain of eating out frequently.<br />
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Happy planning! If you have tips on grocery shopping and meal planning, I'd love to hear them!<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh75thmjZCLpFcpBoKQas3gKBKid1xOvlsW8iulUMMLCj-_XkiWHtlQYvr-nDgKMbFQPBS19b-iHWLSg957SclgZe0qS4AUaH42y9ifLsLgnlhZ5vXlngsUTlq3TrcYVhs__504sBt2aio9/s1600/P1120616.JPG" imageanchor="1" ><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh75thmjZCLpFcpBoKQas3gKBKid1xOvlsW8iulUMMLCj-_XkiWHtlQYvr-nDgKMbFQPBS19b-iHWLSg957SclgZe0qS4AUaH42y9ifLsLgnlhZ5vXlngsUTlq3TrcYVhs__504sBt2aio9/s320/P1120616.JPG" /></a>Alihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6986849312523131089.post-57284795372085575622014-03-11T12:17:00.000-05:002015-07-26T15:46:52.512-05:00Why Worship?<br />
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<i>I was glad when they said to me, "Let us go to the house of the LORD!" - Psalm 122:1</i><br />
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I've been thinking about this verse for many months now. If I'm honest, I can say that there have been many weekends that start with gladness and end with grumbling. My time at church begins with thoughts of joy to be in the Lord's house and end with complaints about my children. I typically end up sitting downstairs watching the service on a TV screen, nursing a baby and trying to contain a toddler with a quiet activity so that I can actually hear the sermon. <br />
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You'd think that with two services per weekend and the pastor available in my own home I'd be able to somehow eek out a full sermon's worth of listening. But week after week passes and when we arrive home I find myself venting frustration to my husband about how little I get out of the church service. I am a single parent in the pew as my husband preaches and leads the service. And sometimes I feel like my six children gang up on me! <br />
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In the last few weeks alone my children have broken two pews, ripped a hymnal, drawn in a church Bible, hummed through the entire service, sprawled out in the aisle during the sermon, distracted people during the children's sermon, and run like hooligans throughout the sanctuary. We've had many friends rescue us by sitting with one of the littles. I'm so thankful for those friends! <br />
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I know some of you are commiserating with me. You have the same problem. Week after week you bring your children to church and find that you return home feeling like you've been through a war. I meet you downstairs in the fellowship hall and you're just as strung out as I am. Perhaps you've reached the point of deciding to just forego bringing your kids to church until they are older. Maybe you don't even bother to come yourself during this time of intense parenting. <br />
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I don't judge you. I get it. And some Sundays I wonder why I am doing this over and over and over again. <br />
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It all comes down to this question: Why do we worship? <br />
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Is worship for me? Is it for my children? Is it so that I can tank up to survive another hectic week? Is the reason for church attendance so that I can put a check in the box now that I've done my religious duty? Or is there something more? <br />
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If worship is about me or my children then I can say it's not working on most weekends. It can't be just to fill me up, because I am often drained from the war in the pew. If I only go to fulfill a religious duty, then it's meaningless and empty. <br />
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No, worship is not about me. Worship is for <i>the One</i> I worship. The songs we sing focus our hearts on Christ. They remind us of Jesus' sacrifice, God's holiness, the hope of our salvation. The study of the Word teaches us more about the God we serve and draws us closer to Him. We learn how to live our lives in accordance with God's will and are brought face to face with the beauty of Christ. Worship is about God and for God. It springs from deep within us as we are stirred by the Holy Spirit. And then there's fellowship with other believers. And while that is filling, it is also a form of worship. A time to encourage one another, share what we are learning, and share one another's burdens. <br />
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I asked my daughter what she has learned from watching me go through this stage of struggle with the little ones. Her reply was this, "I've learned that you should worship God nomatter what." <br />
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Wow! That's a profound thought for a 10 year old. And do you know when that knowledge is going to be most helpful to her? When she's facing a difficult time in life. When her heart is breaking, when her health is weak, when her finances are a mess. At those times she will remember, "you worship God nomatter what."<br />
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It reminds me of the song that my kids love to belt out at the top of their lungs: Blessed Be Your Name by Matt Redman. <br />
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<i>Blessed be Your name<br />
When the suns's shining down on me<br />
When the world's all as it should be<br />
Blessed be your name<br />
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Blessed be your name<br />
On the road marked with suffering<br />
Though there's pain in the offering<br />
Blessed be your name.</i><br />
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Yes! That's it! We worship when it's easy and when it's hard. Circumstances don't alter our need to worship the Lord of Lords. So whether it's just you in the pew, rested and completely focused, or if there are young children wrestling noisily by your side, worship is meant to be constant. <br />
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<i>Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in ALL CIRCUMSTANCES; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. - 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 </i><br />
Alihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6986849312523131089.post-26365266036975435462014-01-29T16:38:00.000-06:002015-07-26T15:44:04.764-05:00The Making of a ManIn many cultures around the world, boys go through a ceremony or ritual. This is often a proving time. A time for them to demonstrate that they can take on the responsibilities of manhood. It's a setting apart. These boys begin the ceremony as a child and exit a man. <br />
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Here in the U.S. we have no such custom. We don't have special events that call boys to be young men. I think partly because of this, we see men in their twenties and even thirties clinging to the fun of boyhood, playing video games, living with Mom and Dad, shirking responsibility. <br />
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With a house full of five boys and one girl, we wanted something different for our young men. Traditionally, the age of 13 is the beginning of manhood. In the west, we've pushed that age to 18 or beyond. Society says the teen years are for experimentation, for boundary crossing, and for much indulgence. But as Josh and I anticipated the teen years, we knew we wanted to expect something different from our children than the norm. <br />
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We decided to have a ceremony to usher our oldest into manhood at the age of 13. Oh, we don't expect that he'll have it all together at such a young age. We're not kicking him out of the house or forcing him to work so he can contribute toward rent and food. Instead, we created a time for men to speak into his life, encourage him in his gifts and abilities, and push him toward great things. <br />
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On a Saturday evening shortly after our son's birthday, we invited several men to a special location. We utilized a friend's house set in a quiet, beautiful location. These men included grandfathers, elders in the church, and respected friends. All were grown men, except for our one 13 year old. All aspects of the evening were kept secret from our son until the actual time of the gathering. It was quite fun to watch his nervous excitement knowing that something special was about to happen.<br />
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We arranged a nice dinner of our teen's favorite foods. The attendees all arrived dressed in suits and ties. It was an evening clearly meant for something special. Each man was given the opportunity to share about what makes a good man. Each was able to speak directly to our 13 year old. Some shared about the leadership qualities they see in him, others told stories from their own youth. Josh talked about the legacy of our family, showing the family crest, and passing on the mantle of manhood to our son. <br />
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And then the best part. These men all gathered around our son, laid hands on him, and prayed for him. They petitioned the God of all the universe to lead, protect, and grow our son. Several men were invited from out of state and those wrote special letters containing their own words of wisdom and prayer. Those are a keepsake that our son will have to look back on to see how the prayers of these men shaped his early years of manhood. <br />
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The last aspect of the ceremony came a little late for the ceremony. We purchased a piece of armor for our son. Since he is the oldest, he received a helmet like the Romans would have worn. It is our hope to give each of our children one piece of armor as they reach their teens. Part of what we are training our children for is to be warriors in the Kingdom of God. No, not warriors with swords and shields. But warriors in a spiritual battle. Warriors who recognize that the greatest weapon is prayer; who are fitted with the spiritual armor talked of in Ephesians 6:10-20. Armor that includes the helmet of salvation, the breastplate of righteousness, the belt of truth, the shield of faith, the shoes of the gospel of peace, and the sword of the Spirit. These pieces of armor are symbolic of what is needed for our children to stand firm in their faith nomatter what may come. <br />
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It has been five months since my son's entrance into manhood. I see in him a young man eager to do great things and longing to make a difference. I love to hear his ambitions and witness his determination as he works toward those goals. He is not a typical teen. He is a young man. <br />
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<i>(For those concerned that our daughter is missing out ... she'll also have a ceremony of some sort and receive a piece of armor. Although her ceremony is likely to be slightly different and will be attended by the important women in her life.)</i>Alihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6986849312523131089.post-41849938097220530272013-12-17T16:34:00.000-06:002015-07-26T15:47:10.968-05:00The Best Pizza Dough EVER!If you like homemade pizza dough and enjoy thick crusts, this is the recipe for you!<br />
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This recipe makes 3 pizza dough crusts and can be frozen.<br />
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Ingredients:<br />
1 (.25 oz) pkg dry yeast or 2 1/4 teaspoons<br />
1 Tablespoon sugar<br />
2 1/2 Cups warm water (110 degrees)<br />
2 Tablespoons olive oil<br />
1 Tablespoon salt<br />
1/2 Cup whole wheat flour<br />
5 1/2 Cups bread flour<br />
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In a large bowl dissolve yeast and sugar in warm water. Let sit until creamy (about 10 minutes). Stir olive oil, wheat flour, salt, and 4 cups bread flour into yeast mixture. Mix in remaining flour 1/2 cup at a time. Stir well after each addition.<br />
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When done, knead dough on a floured surface for about 8 minutes. <br />
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Lightly oil a mixing bowl and put in dough, coating all sides well. Cover with a damp cloth and put in warm place to rise until doubled (1 hour). Punch down and divide into 3 pieces.<br />
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Roll each piece into rounds and cover them to rise for 10 minutes. <br />
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Preheat oven to 425 degrees. <br />
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Use a rolling pin and roll each round to fit your pizza pans. Add desired toppings. Bake at 425 for 20 minutes or until the pizza is golden brown and the cheese is melted.Alihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6986849312523131089.post-16588889937463302122013-12-17T16:03:00.000-06:002015-07-26T15:48:01.986-05:00DIY Flannel BoardA certain little two year old in my life loves playing with magnets and stickers. He actually likes anything that can be put somewhere and feels great accomplishment after doing so. It may be keys in the trash can, phones placed on a random bookshelf, or batteries shoved into the VCR. <br />
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To provide a constructive outlet for his "putting" obsession, I created a flannelboard to give him at Christmas. It was super easy and I think he's going to love it. <br />
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To start with, head to a craft store. You'll need the following:<br />
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<i>one art canvas - any size<br />
flannel material - any color and large enough to cover the canvas with a little extra<br />
rectangles of white felt - these are sold by the sheet and are usually around 9"x11"<br />
printable iron-on transfer sheets. <br />
(I got these at Walmart for much cheaper than at craft stores like Hobby Lobby. Craft stores had them 2 sheets for $10. I found them at Walmart 7 sheets for $10. I purchased the ones that are transfers for light fabric. If you choose to have darker felt pieces, then buy specific transfers for dark fabric.)<br />
a pillowcase<br />
a staple gun<br />
an iron</i><br />
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To begin, iron out your flannel to remove any wrinkles. Then carefully and tightly wrap the flannel around the front of the canvas. Secure it to the back of the canvas using the staple gun. You should end up with a tightly stretched flannel canvas. You can trim the excess flannel after the whole piece is secured well.<br />
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Next, use your computer to find images you'd like to use for your flannel board pieces. You could just use felt to create your own pieces, but I'm not artistic enough for that. Some people use fabric paint, googly eyes, and all sorts of fancy things to make the felt pieces. For me, printing the images from the computer was good enough! Once you've chosen the images you want, just print them onto your printable transfer sheets. **Be sure to read the directions carefully so that you are printing on the right side!**<br />
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And a word to the wise. Numbers and letters will iron on backwards from how they print. So be sure they are printed backwards in order to have them correctly ironed on to your felt.<br />
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Once you've printed out your images, simply follow the directions on your transfer sheet package to iron the images onto the felt. It is not recommended to iron on an ironing board. Instead use the kitchen counter top and simply place a pillow case between the counter and your felt. <br />
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Once the transfers are complete, cut carefully around the images and voila! You have yourself a flannel board and several felt pieces to go with it! You can even place the pieces in a cute little container to keep things organized. <br />
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The thing I love about this is that I can add to the pieces as my children's interests change. Right now, he loves all things that move and animals. So I made him a barn set, a fishing scene, and several emergency vehicles and personnel. However, I'm sure that in the next month or two I'll be adding an entire Thomas the Tank Engine set complete with a roundabout and track. I also think a set of food in a restaurant series would be pretty neat. The possibilities are endless! Alihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6986849312523131089.post-39591420859047958262013-12-10T14:33:00.002-06:002015-07-26T16:20:23.471-05:00Purpose-filled Christmas CardsDo you ever wonder what to do with all the beautiful Christmas cards that come in the mail at this time of year? Sure, some of them have pictures of friends which you can then put on your fridge. But others are just cards with a little note tucked in. It seems a shame to quickly read them and then toss them in the garbage. Why not do something productive with them since people have taken the time and expense to send them to you?<br />
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<i>image from itsbetterhandmade.com</i> <br />
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Last year a friend posted a status on facebook that has had me anticipating the arrival of Christmas cards for 12 months! She and her family recently left their comfortable home in the States to live in Kenya as missionaries. They gave up much and left all of their friends and family to live in an unknown place amongst strangers. Perhaps because of a little homesickness, the Christmas cards that made it to them in Africa were extra special. My sweet friend wrote something like this (and I'm paraphrasing): We love receiving the cards from friends and family. It is a joy to open one each evening, read the card and look at the picture, and then spend time in prayer for the ones who sent it. <br />
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Her post was like a refreshing glass of water! The sometimes seemingly ridiculous nature of sending out cards once a year was suddenly given new purpose. We receive cards from so many friends and family members. Cards that remind us of lasting friendships, cards that celebrate new life and wonderful happenings, cards that tell of sadness and hardship. While I love to get and read Christmas cards, I've found that my family rarely joins in. The kids look at the pictures sent, but often see only a sea of strangers. My husband reads the ones that I force into his hands, but otherwise takes no part in this particular holiday tradition. <br />
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This year will be different though! As we sit and enjoy our dinner together, we'll choose a different card each night to read. We'll tell of how we know the sender. As a family we'll rejoice or mourn with those we love while we read their news. And then we'll do something productive. We'll pray for the one who sent the card. We'll join our voices and our hearts together and seek the Lord on their behalf. Why? Because Christmas isn't about cards and gifts and busy schedules. Christmas is about Jesus. And one of the ways we honor Him is by loving our neighbors - nomatter how far away. <br />
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We've already begun our new tradition. And while the kids aren't used to it yet, I hope we'll get enough cards to be going long into January. I've already peeked at tonight's card and it's one from friends who have recently returned to the mission field in a very difficult place. I look forward to a sweet time of prayer for this dear couple, and I look forward to the seeds it will plant in my own children's hearts as they hear of God's work in the lives of others around the world.Alihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6986849312523131089.post-5108128102115793862013-11-25T13:34:00.001-06:002015-07-26T15:50:41.506-05:00Advent CalendarAs our kids are getting older, we've enjoyed using an advent calendar through the month of December. For years we've talked of doing a Jesse tree, but can't seem to find the time to put it together. Last year we used a lego advent calendar and while it was fun for the kids, it didn't do anything to point us toward the real reason for celebrating Christmas. <br />
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This year I looked on pinterest for ideas and put a few different ideas together to come up with this:<br />
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I bought 12 pairs of baby mittens. You can look for Christmas themed ones, but I like that these are "wintery" instead of "Christmasy". I then took little tags and wrote the numbers 1-24 on one side and pinned them to the inside of the mitten. <br />
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On the other side of the tag is a list of Scriptures to read each day. <br />
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All of these mittens are hung with small (but not tiny) clothes pins. These can be found at craft stores like Michaels or Hobby Lobby. The rope is actual clothes line that we used on our clothes line outside. This is the leftover. It's sturdy enough to hold anything we put inside the mittens, but is green and pretty enough to work for Christmas decor.<br />
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Just before December first we'll also put a little treat inside each mitten so the kids can take turns looking inside. They'll receive a little gift (likely candy) and read the Scripture for the day. We plan to incorporate this into our normal morning devotions during breakfast. <br />
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What do I like about this? <br />
1. It's reuseable. Each year we can pull it out and use it again and again. <br />
2. The kids will have a fun thing to do to build anticipation as we move toward Christmas day. <br />
3. It's doesn't end with the fun. We will read the Scripture verses and talk about what really matters. <br />
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Here are the verses we're using each day. These came recommended to us, but we haven't yet tried using them in this order for advent. We'll see how it goes. I've been thinking about using a second set of tags that has more of the prophecies from Isaiah and switching back and forth each year. But here's a starting place.<br />
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Day 1: Luke 2:21-40<br />
Day 2: Matthew 1:1-25<br />
Day 3: Luke 2:1-20<br />
Day 4: Mark 9:33-37<br />
Day 5: Matthew 4:12-17, Isaiah 9:1-3, Matthew 5:14-16<br />
Day 6: Acts 20:35, I John 4:10<br />
Day 7: Exodus 25<br />
Day 8: Matthew 25:31-46<br />
Day 9: Isaiah 9:6-7, Revelation 19:1-16, I Timothy 6:11-16<br />
Day 10: Matthew 1:22-23, Isaiah 7:10-15, John 1:14<br />
Day 11: Genesis 1:1-31, Isaiah 1:18, Psalm 51:1-10<br />
Day 12: Revelation 2:1-5, I John 3:1-3<br />
Day 13: Psalm 150<br />
Day 14: Acts 15:22-31<br />
Day 15: Luke 1, Jeremiah 32:17<br />
Day 16: Matthew 2:1-12<br />
Day 17: Galatians 4:1-7<br />
Day 18: Isaiah 58, Matthew 6:16-18<br />
Day 19: Luke 11:1-13<br />
Day 20: John 1<br />
Day 21: John 21:25<br />
Day 22: Psalm 100<br />
Day 23: Matthew 25<br />
Day 24: John 3:16<br />
Alihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6986849312523131089.post-25447804933265430282013-09-19T09:33:00.001-05:002015-07-26T16:20:45.121-05:00Bodly and with Confidence<br />
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We've all been there. We've sat through the awkward silence after a group leader asks if someone would like to pray. It's agonizingly painful for the leader who is waiting for a brave soul to step up, and it's embarassing for all those who feel like they should volunteer, but really don't want to. <br />
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Why are we like this? Why do we choose silence when we're given the opportunity to lead others before the throne of grace? I wonder what impression we give to those outside of the faith. <br />
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<i>Prayer is a burdensome duty.<br />
You must pray perfectly or God will not accept it. <br />
Faith is a private thing and shouldn't be forced on others.<br />
Only those mature in the faith can lead others in prayer. </i><br />
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Oh, how wrong these assumptions are! Hebrews 4:16 says, <i>"Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need." </i> With confidence!! Other translations use the word boldly. That's a far cry from how many of us are approaching group prayer.<br />
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Last summer I had the joy of seeing someone approach the throne of grace with confidence. Her name is Patty. To say she's had a hard life doesn't even scratch the surface of what Patty has been through. When I met her, Patty was a homeless alcoholic. In the midst of her pain, someone had come alongside Patty. While providing for her basic physical needs, this woman also saw to the needs of Patty's soul. <br />
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Patty is a naturally passionate person, and when she asked the Lord to redeem the mess of her life, her passion spilled over into her faith. She began attending a Bible study and it was delightful to watch her grow and learn. Passionate Patty was never staid in her faith. When the study leader asked, "Who would like to read from ..." Patty would interrupt. "Me! I'd like to read! What verses?" When the study leader asked for a volunteer to pray, there was no moment of awkward silence. Before anyone else could get a word in, Patty would almost yell out her desire to pray. <br />
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While most of us approach group prayer by first providing a moment of quiet for anyone else to voice their desire to pray, Patty would be the first to volunteer; afraid the opportunity might pass her by. She wasn't concerned about letting others have the privilege, she simply wanted to spend every moment conversing with her Lord. <br />
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Christians, why aren't we more like Patty? We should <i>jump</i> at the opportunity to lead others to the throne. The Lord does not require eloquent, beautiful prayers. He does not concern himself with what others think of our stumbling words. A heart that longs for Him ought to leap at the chance to bring others into His presence in prayer. So next time you're in a group, don't be polite and wait for others to volunteer. Be the one that wastes not even a moment before declaring your desire to pray. What a privilege we have to speak to the Creator, the Savior, the King of Kings! Alihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01845570305038744838noreply@blogger.com0